I don't comprehend hypocrites.
When unkind, self absorbed liars post uplifting mantras telling the masses to be kind for example.
Or narcissists declare that compassion and open communication, trust and respect build relationships...no - somone with the capacity to do these things rather than say them - can build relationships.
And people who rip off others they are supposedly in partnership with...personal or work related...that bleed you dry, and just opt out....no explanation, no follow thru, no resolutions.... just completely self absorbed into their own new reality.
Those people can suck a big.... onion.
Karma is supposed to come and give them an uppercut but sometimes that's a long time coming. I'm learning that I have to stop being so kind and helpful and easy to get along with. I need to be a hardarse and get mean.
And now my eldest boy has found the same.
What makes others turn into selfish versions of the people they were? Into people who skew the past into their own weird little excuse for their self serving actions.
Why do they steal from us that which we thought was honest and true? Why do they renig on deals and not think to include us in the decision to do so?
People are arses and think it's just dandy. They blunder forward with no regard, and we stand, stuck in a moment we trusted was true... unable to take ourselves back to a time that no longer exists, questioning if we can move forward due to apathy and positions we have found ourselves in...all power being whisked away from us, left to ponder.
To my oldest boy- stay true. This is not a sign to give up, it's a sign to trust few but yourself, strive to reach your goals and appreciate life lessons that will make you stronger. Give gratitude to those who remain true and leave the rest far behind.
Love your passion and your talent. They can't steal that from you.
Couldn't be prouder of the person you are.
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